Ladies ... THIS should be a PERFECT example to you of that old saying, "You ARE what you eat"! And the same thing applies to real-life: "You attract what YOUR level of living is"!
If YOU aren't about "S**T", then you're only going to attract and KEEP "...ain't about S**T" people in your life. Like Judge Mablean Ephraim ("Divorce Court") always says, "You need to look DEEP ... BEFORE you leap". ALL of this mad-mouthing and slander you choose to take to social media is SO unnecessary, and a VERY poor example to show to your child(ren).
JUST because YOU'VE made what appear to be the wrong decisions in your life, DON'T lose sight of YOUR responsibility now, and leave society up to the task of raising an off-balanced, ill-equipped child thrown into the world, who is ALSO bitter and misdirected.
Learn to "co-parent" your children, instead of just being a "baby's mama/daddy". And as long as YOUR immature, child-like behavior confirms the description, you will ONLY ever be known as someone's "baby mama/daddy", and NOT a contributing adult in that child's life, trying to co-parent and mold this young life to later become a productive, necessary-asset to society. So at the end of the day, ask yourselves, Men AND women ... Are YOU just sperm/egg-donors used as a physical vehicle to bring the Lord's child into existence, or are YOU being the TRUE vessel that the Lord chose over EVERYONE ELSE, to bring about HIS blessing into this world, and who YOU are entrusted to ensure is molded and loved as the Lord would do if HE were here? ALL according to HIS will...
The choice is yours at conception. Chose wisely.