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Talk Dirty To Me: Black Womanâs White Husband Uses Racial Slurs In Bed
in one of Essence Magazineâs Ask Abiola, a woman who calls herself Black and Proud complained about her lackluster *** life with her White husband. According to her story, Black and Proud met her hubby at a reunion for the ivy league school they attended and after six months of dating, the two lovebirds wed. Because we live in a different time, interracial marriages arent as taboo as they once were, but Black and Prouds husbands desire to talk dirty to her during *** is more than taboo, itâs downright degrading.
Black and Proudâs husband delights in calling his beautiful Black wife, n!gger b!tch during *** and itâs taken away her desire to have *** with him. The first thing I thought was to blame Black and Proud for marrying this ivy league White man, but then I realized, you canât fault who you love. Although cliche, love is supposed to conquer all, but in this case, bigotry is an obstacle worth kicking over instead of conquering. Also, her husband waited until their honeymoon to drop the n-bomb on his wife. I wonder if heâd said it during their expensive dates, would Black and Proud have married him?
Itâs these lavish gifts that Black and Prouds husband showers her in that allow him to joke about buying her freedom. He also refers to himself as a n!gger lover and thinks itâs hilarious when he continually throws that hate-filled word around in his wifeâs presence. Black and Proud canât take it anymore and decided to publicly ask for help.
Check Out The Letter Below:
My man keeps calling me a n!gger b!tch during *** and I hate it.
I have been married for a year and I am at my witâs end. My investment banker husband is from a White old money family. I am a first generation Black-American woman whose family is from the island of Jamaica. We met at a reunion for the ivy league school we both attended, and he proposed in six months.
We have the picture perfect fantasy life. He wines and dines me and we travel and shop the globe. Unlike all of the Black men I dated in the past, my husband is generous, loyal, committed and considerate. He courted me and I never have to pay for anything. He said I could quit my job and I did. He makes me feel like a woman.
I am a little embarrassed to share our problem. The first time he let the n-word drop was during *** on our honeymoon. When I reacted negatively, he explained that a Black woman he dated in the past enjoyed being called racial slurs. Another time he joked that he had purchased my freedom. He also speculated about whether his family could have owned mine because I have good hair. Then he made jokes about my pubic hair. He called it my kneegro bush and referred to himself as a n!gger lover. He says I am being overly sensitive because he loves me to death and should get a Black pass for marrying me
I told him that I donât appreciate these comments and he says that my friends and family probably use the n-word all the time. He also asked why Black people can use the word and he cannot. I donât use the word or believe in the n!gga/n!gger differentiation. Neither does my family. I am too embarrassed to tell anyone about this because I know they might say: Thatâs what she gets for marrying a White man
Every time we try having *** again, the slurs fly. Our *** life is pretty much over right now because I pretend to be asleep every time my sexy, handsome man wants to be with me. I feel completely turned off. I love my husband deeply so please donât tell me to leave him because thatâs not what I want to do.
My husband was my first interracial relationship. Please tell me racial slurs arenât normal between interracial couples? I would like to figure this out before we have kids but I canât afford to leave him and still maintain my lifestyle.
How can I regain my sexual attraction for my husband?
Black and Proud
YES BLACK WOMEN WE WHITEMEN ARE SO MUCH BETTER FOR YALL
COME BACK HOME TO MASSA I MEAN DADDY
YOURS TRULEY WHITEY