YOU STATED: Go on and come out bro. Jason Collins just did.
MY RESPONSE: Even if Rhodes might be ghaye or for the sake of argument or debate, I would not expect for him to come out bro like you say. Ghaye life is not as cut and dry as other non-ghaye races. In the black culture it comes from an entirely different place in ones spirituality. It is all about culture here. Same with food, dance, rhythm, etc.
JASON COLLINS, though I never heard of him before I saw the news story today, is ghaye. He has more of a womans approach to logic and communication. In other words, he would handle this situation, in which he did, like a woman would. Women like to talk and be understood, where as men are more mystical. All brothers who have same saxxe affairs do not handle it the same as Jason Collins. Jason Collins is ghaye like a, say, a white person who is ghaye.
KERRY RHODES is nowhere like Jason Collins, whether he is ghaye or not. Those two dudes have nothing in common except they are both black and they both play sports. I mean, they both come from two different places mentally or spiritually. They just cannot be compared. I would never expect Kerry Rhodes to be like Jason Collins. Duh.
IN BLACK LIFE, there are as many different nuances of sakshuality as there are nuances of skin tone, such as high-yella, beige, brown, reddesshe brown, dark-brown, black, blue-black, purple. Sakshuality in the black culture is world of its own.